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Hello! I am looking for someone who is intelligent, polite, and a good conversational fit for me. Let me start off by saying I am NOT your Mistress. If you message me, do so as you would approach a stranger on the street. Don't be crass or lewd, and don't push your kinks on me. I am not your kink dispenser. Call me any kind of honorific, and I will not be interested. Those have to be earned. I am NOT interested in married men.

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CBT Preferences

I prefer:Depends on my partner
Things I enjoy:Stroking
Orgasm during play:Depends on playmate

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:I don't enjoy sex in public, as I think pushing my kinks on those not participating is against their consent.
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:In the woods off of a hiking trail.

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildAverage
Height165 cm
Eye ColorDepends on my mood
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShort
Best featureEyes
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Health ConditionNo special condition
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleWire bender

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
EthnicityNo preference
Body typeNo preference

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDomme
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyle24/7
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Candle wax, Chastity devices, Collar & lead / leash, Femdom, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Sexual Activities

Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on my mood
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isNot my thing
Sex toys:Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Read spanking stories, The Closure / Forgiveness
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to something outside in a safe area
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Wooden Spoon, Other

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Depends on my mood
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, Leather, Other