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new to this and looking to learn

Im 38 and am new at this. I have never been tied up or spanked, or any of that. But the thought of a "nice dom" turns me on. I want to be taught how to be a slave, to be trained, make me suck your strap on and force toys into my virgin ass. tie me down, force me into a cock cage. I have a lot of fantasies and no one to share them with. would you be willing to take on another slave? I would like to met a person who is new to being a dom, a first timer that will let me be her first and learn together. if you are new to being a mistress, i want to be new to being your bitch

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
Height5' 9" (175 cm)
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureCalves
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyTeacher / Education
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$100,000 - $250,000

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness
My perfect matchMy perfect match would be a woman that wants to explore without limits, but also like to command often, not subjugate, but control that’s not afraid to speak her mind, and use the whip when necessary.
Our first dateSetting the ground rules

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle, A combination of all
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA mentor / teacher
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyWhipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner


FetishesCrossdressing, High Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Medical / Enema, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, Shoes / Boots, Smothering, Tongue Fetish, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Several times a day
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkI've never tried it
Night life:Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexI've never tried it
Oral Sex isI want to try it
Anal sex isI want to try it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":im willing to try most anything with a girl. I might need some encouragment, you can decide if it will be the soft tone of an encouraging voice, or the crack of a whip.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI often fantasize about a woman Making me her little bitch and fucking me with a strapon while making me wear her wet panties. Then sending me off to work still wearing them. Or diapering me at night and making me hold it, with a plug up my ass.
Fantasy locationAirplane
Fantasy sex partner:a sweet sexy girl that accepts me for who I am, and is willing to dominate but care

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I enjoy the occasional beating
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
I like to wear:Lingerie and stockings, Leather, Other
Ultimate femdom fantasy:She would understand that I am new and would gradually strip me down, collar me, leash me, bind me and then fuck me with whatever toys she sees fit. She would then slowly put a remote control vibe up my ass and make sure it is held in by making me wear her wet satin panties. Then she would take me out so we could walk around in public with her panties under my pants and she can randomly turn on and off the vibe all while flirting and acting like a normal loving couple. Back indoors she makes me suck her strapon while pulling on my leash, the night end with her shoving her old panties in my mouth, another pair up my ass, and making me cum in the pair I’m wearing before sending me home with the gooey mess still locked in her panties and her taste still in my mouth.