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I'm sorry, please don't spank me.

"There are really two kinds of submissive in this world, those who believe they don't deserve any better…and those who believe they don't deserve any less."
Author Unknown

I started out in the scene as a sub. However the fact that I have a submissive side does not mean I am that to everyone, I’m not just anyones’s sub. I am very choosey about who I will be submissive to. I am not your typical submissive. In my vanilla life I'm very much the person in charge, the dominant figure which is possibly why I find it exciting to sometimes relinquish control to someone else, however I have found that I can't always be submissive at the drop of a hat. Sometimes I need to be in the mood or there needs to be a reason, either physical or emotional reason. I should point out at this point that in the past I have been known to be deliberately naughty just so I can anger my partner in order to be punished. I have a lot of interest in role play. In particular I have a "thing" for the teacher/school scenario. I love the being told off for being naughty bit. I can practically orgasm from just being told off and spanked I want a woman who is safe but also rough and dominant and will push me harder and deeper every time we play. Ideally I'm looking for a Mistress, a Temptress and tormentor, an artist with a cane. someone I can serve and adore, and who in return will cherish and use me for her pleasure. I want to submit to you body, mind and soul psychologically and sexually. To kneel at your feet and serve you in any way you see fit.
Safe and sane are open to interpretation. We all have limits, we are only human. BDSM to me is essentially about bringing one's fantasies to reality and key words must be in place before play commences.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageBritish
BuildAverage
Height173 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthBald
Facial HairShaved
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedNo

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenOne
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusSelf-employed

Looking For

My perfect matchA woman who knows how to punish naughty boys.
Our first dateWe will have to see.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D)
My role isSubmissive
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Candle wax, Dacryphilia, Depilation / shaving, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Femdom, Food play, Foot / shoe worship, Spanking, Verbal humiliation, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Fetishes

FetishesExhibitionism, Lace / Lingerie, Medical / Enema, Shoes / Boots, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Night clubs, Fetish clubs, Adult theaters, Swapping parties, Dungeon clubs, Raves, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Adult book stores, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

"Off Limits":Children and Animals

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyAsk me.
Fantasy locationAirplane, Train, Moving car, At a park, Dark alley, Kitchen, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Hot tub, Movie theatre, Dressing room, On the beach, My office, In a church, Library, In a taxi cab, Public bathroom, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:COULD IT BE YOU???

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Hard with hand or implement
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Other
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse, Other
Response:Pouting / Crying
Pain level:Heavy Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I relish in regular discipline
Desired Persona:Many Diverse Personas
Ultimate femdom fantasy:Being thrashed until I am crying and my bottom is bleeding.